Who's That Lady? I Am That Lady!

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By Shantail L. Miller

Everybody knows the cliché: "Right place, wrong time". As for Shantail, she was the wrong person in the wrong place at the wrong time. This memoir about an invisible girl is a chilling narration, a portrayal of a child who suffers in silence, confronted by many traumas that came pounding at her door.

Shantail carried fragments of her innocence into her adulthood. The remaining scraps of her identity were ruptured by the perverted indignities that had been committed. Just when she thought she was in the clear, her past would always find her. She saw no way out and no way of escaping the years of suffering she endured at the hands of those driven by impulsive and carnal cravings. Her pain was no respecter of time, no matter how many years went by

Shantail often gazed at her broken reflection begging to be anyone other than who she was. She craved straighter hair, smaller nostrils, prettier figure, lighter skin, and even to be white and erase the colored curse. Her low self-esteem created a demand for attention by seeking to compensate for the breaches in her childhood. To her, the grass would always be greener on the other side.

Crying inward, she yearned for protection, for notice of her pain and a way to recover what was lost: her time, her innocence, her security, and her sense of self. She continued in shameful silence and longed for justice, yet by grace, she remained merciful and compassionate.

As a wife, she arrived at a crossroads between facing her past and recovering her aborted destiny. Through healing and deliverance, she learned that a "broken mirror" was not the ruin of her image.

View the book trailer for “Who’s That Lady? I Am That Lady!” and read reviews/view video testimonials of the book below.

By Shantail L. Miller

Everybody knows the cliché: "Right place, wrong time". As for Shantail, she was the wrong person in the wrong place at the wrong time. This memoir about an invisible girl is a chilling narration, a portrayal of a child who suffers in silence, confronted by many traumas that came pounding at her door.

Shantail carried fragments of her innocence into her adulthood. The remaining scraps of her identity were ruptured by the perverted indignities that had been committed. Just when she thought she was in the clear, her past would always find her. She saw no way out and no way of escaping the years of suffering she endured at the hands of those driven by impulsive and carnal cravings. Her pain was no respecter of time, no matter how many years went by

Shantail often gazed at her broken reflection begging to be anyone other than who she was. She craved straighter hair, smaller nostrils, prettier figure, lighter skin, and even to be white and erase the colored curse. Her low self-esteem created a demand for attention by seeking to compensate for the breaches in her childhood. To her, the grass would always be greener on the other side.

Crying inward, she yearned for protection, for notice of her pain and a way to recover what was lost: her time, her innocence, her security, and her sense of self. She continued in shameful silence and longed for justice, yet by grace, she remained merciful and compassionate.

As a wife, she arrived at a crossroads between facing her past and recovering her aborted destiny. Through healing and deliverance, she learned that a "broken mirror" was not the ruin of her image.

View the book trailer for “Who’s That Lady? I Am That Lady!” and read reviews/view video testimonials of the book below.

Available as an eBook on Kindle.

5 Star Reviews

“Very authentic! The author did a great job of sharing real and raw stories with tact and respect for parties involved. You could feel the love even when sharing difficult things. This book is also not just for reading but is a guide for spiritual growth and healing. I did not expect the added component of being led to reflect and allow the Spirit to speak to me and different points during the book. It was very necessary to engage with the book in this way. It helped me bring my own story front and center and address some of my own issues. Beautiful job!”

— Tinika W.

“‘Who’s That Lady? I’m That Lady!’ is not just the name of the book, nor is it just a memoir. As I began to read it, the author just draws you into her life story. Very powerfully written!! It turns into an encounter for the reader, I love how at the end of every chapter, as she shares her story, it turns into an experience. Shantail addresses the reader and challenges you to explore your life to see weather there are any hidden areas; well… hidden for some & not hidden for others… but she challenges you to open yourself & be vulnerable so that you can receive healing. It’s amazing how we all have a story. We go through these difficult places in life…and to see how God can use every bit of it to empower us for ministry & service. Whether it be for a public platform or private encounter. If we are open and sensitive, if we allow God to use our stuff! So, Shantail Miller, I want to say ...THANK YOU!!! Thank you for your bravery; having courage enough to put it all out there so that others can be healed. So that others can see victory!! So that others can see that their reflection in that “broken mirror” is not a true reflection of who they are! We learn that our trauma does not determine who we are but rather can (if we allow God) develop us to who we are called to be!! God desires to use it all!!”

— Darla R.

“As a Pastor and someone who counsels many who have had sexual trauma, this book is a gift from God. This author speaks of her own personal story of abuse and childhood sexualization along with sharing her path to healing, recovery and wholeness. This is a must read for women, men and parents. It offers all the tools necessary for healing and is written in a candid and yet loving way. I highly recommend.”

— Mark G.

“I didn't know what to expect from Who's that Lady? I Am that Lady... so many emotions while reading the book. The author did a beautiful job of us taking us on a journey of love, trust, broken trust, and redemption. I had to put down the book for a moment and deal with my own memories of abuse, and thank God once more for my deliverance and victory over the situation and the affects that it once had on my life. This book shares that; brokenness to living a victorious life. I recommend this book to anyone who has gone through any type of abuse. Male or Female. It will help you recognize if you've been abused, how to receive healing, and most importantly how to forgive those who violated you.”

— Tamra H.

“Through this literary jewel, I was pulled into the author’s memoir in a very personal and authentic way. Her own transparency and reflective prompts awakened some burials that had taken place in my own life; allowing me with opportunities to address, forgive (again), and walk in transformative restoration! A must read for anyone on a journey of moving forward in any and all areas of life!Through this literary jewel, I was pulled into the author’s memoir in a very personal and authentic way. Her own transparency and reflective prompts awakened some burials that had taken place in my own life; allowing me with opportunities to address, forgive (again), and walk in transformative restoration! A must read for anyone on a journey of moving forward in any and all areas of life!

— Fa'izah B.

“This book is real, raw, and riveting! If you have ever been victimized and you are being held hostage by the traumatic memories of what you experienced, this story givies you permission to shed the fear and be free. The author (Shantail Miller) undresses her past and bares the naked truth of the injurious crimes committed against her as well as the self-inflicted wounds that remained unhealed for many years, but by the end of the story she stands tall without trepidation as an example of God's redeeming power.”

— Cedric B.

“I read this book and my outlook on life and self perception changed for the better. To hear that you’re not the only one the enemy tries to intimidate with shame and doubt, that you’re not alone on this walk, and that Jesus heals all is reassuring. I love the self reflection aspect of this book, it was a pleasant surprise! And the scattered poetry throughout was so lovely and endearing. It reminded me of my own talents I hid away and has delivered me from condemnation and inspired me to press in to the call Christ has on my own life.”

— Dalaisha J.

“If you’re looking for healing and wholeness in key areas of your life, “Who’s that lady? I’m that lady” is the book for you! The level of trauma transparency will normalize the pain of your past and usher you into breakthrough for your future. My wife and I picked up the book and read it from cover to cover in 2 days. It’s a GAME CHANGER!”

— R. Misouria

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